The Brandi Hawbaker (BrandiRose) Story
December 19, 2006
Forget about Annie Duke, Evelyn Ng and Shana Hiatt, Full Tilt cover girl, Brandi Hawbaker, has arrived. Her story is one of crime, sexual depravity, Dutch Boyd as a shining white knight, Dutch Boyd as a backstabbing patent peddler, Doyle Brunson as the kind heart he is known to be, 100K from Full Tilt for the photo at right and more… You have to read the original 2+2 thread to get the full flavor – but it is a half million posts long so you might not make it that far.
CLIFF NOTES by one of the 2+2 posters
1. Brandi gives man who calls himself “Captain Tom” her entire roll of 12 G’s.
2. The Captain is sort of like a grandfather to Brandi, but soon he turns evil and rubs his manhood against her back while they are sharing a hotel room.
3. Captain allegedly wants a BJ or more to give back the money.
4. Brandi get back 3K of the 12, but has to snuggle with the old man. He continues to teqach her. Brandi sticks around.
5. Captain Tom is allegedly really into much younger women.
6. Brandi goes to Doyle Brunson, he gives her 2 grand out of the kindness of his heart.
7. Brandi tried to OD herself and is suicidal and depressed.
8. Phil Gordon gives Brandi money, but she gets her BMW repossessed and eats a thanksgiving meal alone.
9. Brandi is pissed and out for revenge. She punches a dude and has a panic attack.
Pauly is planning a full book on it.
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I’ve seen this photo all over the poker net, I thought it was pretty damn hot; and I also thought she was just some drunken girl posing for her boyfriend outside a bar.
No she’s the lovely Brandi Rose Hawbaker – ain’t she a peach?
You might consider contacting me before you even begin to think about writing a book about my daughter. While I do believe in the “freedom of speech” issues, the poker world only knew my daughter 2 brief years, and most of what has been written over the internet about her is complete trash and untrue. Even Jen and Brandon’s final tribute to her while it touches somewhat around truth issues about my daughter they are off the mark. BrandiRose wrote to me in Oct. of last year about what was happening to her over the internet. My daughter wrote to me the evening/early morning before her 26th Birthday on March 25, 2008, just weeks before she died. I did not receive her letter until 4/29/08. The internet world really knows little about what happened with my daughter. While the math does not add up in the normal sense, it did for BrandiRose. BrandiRose holds her father, Timothy {Tim} James Hawbaker {I} 100% responsible for her committing suicide. BrandiRose holds her “step-mother” Veronica Ford Hawbaker 100% responsible for her comitting suicide. Her dad spoke to her two days before she died. BrandiRose signed off stating that her “step-mother” would never see her again. Most people dont’ know that her dad and her “step-mother” per BrandiRose were forcing her to pay them rent, just for living in her stepmom’s house when Tim moved to Nashville, TN. BrandiRose was still a Sr. in High School at the time. I don’t know how much more classic you can get to the “EVIL STEP-MOTHER” role than this. Most people don’t know that her own dad put her out on the street at 17, basically because BrandiRose knew too much. In 2003 the summer before BrandiRose’s grandmother passed away, BrandiRose called me frequently. In one conversation she stated that her dad wouldn’t ruin his “meal ticket”. Meaning Veronica Ford came from old New York money. And that Tim had to get rid of BrandiRose because she knew too much and that BrandiRose was a risk because she would blow his most recent con job. Other than myself, the L.A. Coroner’s office, and the L.A. Police department most don’t know the actual circumstances surrounding my daughter’s death. In addition BrandiRose holds the Internet harassment she was receiving by every sick pervert out there 100% responsible for her taking her life. That includes Tom Franklin and David Sylanski or however in the hell that sick pervert’s last name is spelled. Hope these two burn forever in hell for exploiting, using, and abusing my daughter. BrandiRose holds Brandon 20% responsible for her taking her life. And he is a guy who claimed / claims he loved my dauather. Guess he didn’t bother to go back and look at all the trash and videos he and Bryan Micon put out on the internet about her, before he and Jen made their little tribute to her. What Brandon did to my daughter is not love. He clearly doesn’t know the meaning of Love. Suggest he look it up in the Bible in I Cor. 13 before he makes any more statements to this effect. And finally BrandiRose holds Bryan Micon 20% responsible as well. That adds up to 340% in BrandiRose’s mind at the time of her death. As far a Jen is concerned BrandiRose had nothing to say about the girl, but did mention her friend Poppy from highschool. If anyone knows Poppy’s current address and / or phone number I would appreciate her contacting me as BrandiRose had some final messages for her which I would like to see that she receives. As far as who “stole” took possession of BrandiRose’s little dog “Princeton”, her little dog was suppose to be secured through the L.A. Police Department into Estate Services Protection to be claimed by next of kin, which did not happen in this case. Even in my daughter’s death people continue to exploit her, use her, steal from her. Which really is quite sad to be completely honest. Guess none of you out there have any respect at all for the dead.
To those who knew, cared for, and loved my daughter,
I am providing this update due to recent events that have occurred this past week.
To those who don’t know the truth,
I, BrandiRose’s Mom, learned of my daughter’s death per my older brother, whom is a computer programmer. He found her death on the internet on 4/29/08, and called me in the state I live to inform me. He did not want to tell me this news over the telephone, but instead wanted me to take the weekend off to return to Omaha, NE to be with my father and himself before he broke this news to me. When during our conversation he did break the news to me he cried. He, my older brother, loved my daughter and even coached her in softball when she was a little girl. It is probably one of the hardest things he has ever had to do in his role as my big brother. After confirming in fact with the coroner’s office in LA, CA that indeed my daughter was dead I was totally shocked to learn that my ex-husband, Tim J. Hawbaker {I}, had been informed of her death the early morning of 4/14/08, and just left her body to rot in the coroner’s office. That evening 4/29/08 I confirmed again that her body was still there and in fact that BrandiRoses’s Dad made no arrangements for her remains. I had to work on 4/30/08 knowing this information. On the early morning of May 1, 2008 {Tim J. Hawbaker’s Birthday by the way} I took a flight to LA, CA to identify my daughter’s body. I learned at the coroner’s office that Tim J. Hawbaker {I}, didn’t even bother himself with making a trip to LA, CA for his daughter, but instead via Fax on 4/22/08 took possession of her personal belongings with her in LA, CA, which were shipped to him. I saw my daughter basically for the first time in 13 years at the Douglas Family Mortuary {I was able to spend one day with my daughter at my mother’s funeral in December 2003, in Omaha,NE}. While I deal with death and dying everyday in my role both as a critical care nurse/trauma nurse and equally as a psychiatric nurse, the horror in which I found the state of my daughter’s body will never leave me. She was decomposing because her father left her rot for weeks. Her once beautiful face was swollen, black, purple, red, blue, yellow, and green. Her beautiful auburn hair was falling out. And she had mold growing on her face. I took last pictures of my daughter so that I would never forget what that sick S.O.B. did to my beloved daughter. I prayed over my daughter, I blessed my daughter, I washed her in holy water, I braided her lovely hair and took a lock of it, I held my daughter, and I kissed her good-bye one final time. I spent 4 days in LA, CA and in between going to the police station, I spent aimless hours walking and crying on the beaches there trying to figure out what my daughter loved about LA. I did not feel my daughter’s spirit there. I returned home that Sunday evening. On Tuesday morning I receive a call from Douglas Family Mortuary telling me that they were unable to cremate my daughter because my ex-husband filed a death certificate with incorrect, incomplete, and unknown information on it. The man couldn’t even get the date of his daughter’s birth correct. He told the coroner’s office her date of birth was 3/16/82, when in fact BrandiRose was born on 3/26/82. The Mortuary had to have BrandiRose’s Death Certificate amended before they could cremate her. My daughter was cremated at her wishes on May 7, 2008. BrandiRose had requested to have her ashes scattered in the ocean. I finally received my daughter’s remains and her still incorrect death certificate on last Saturday afternoon. Her death certificate is needing to be amended for a second time. To those who don’t know this, My ex-husband, Tim J. Hawbaker {I}, was court ordered during our divorce proceedings to pay for and provide BrandiRose with Psychiatric Mental Health Care for her first suicide attempt. He was also court ordered to get himself psychiatric care for his personality disorders {x 3}. Instead he spends his money gambling and flying to Chicago to screw a 22 year old named Marie {who he tried to force my son Timmy to call “Mommy” at the time} at the same time he is flying to Nashville, TN to screw his current wife, Veronica Ford Hawbaker. I saw my son for the last time June 23, 1999 and have had no contact whatsoever with him since, because Tim J. Hawbaker {I}, lives under and uses other people’s Social Security Numbers. What Veronica Ford Hawbaker, doesn’t know, {but which her dad in New York does} is that my and my son’s Social Security numbers were changed by the Federal Government in 1997 due to Tim’s defrauding countless individuals, the State of NE, the IRS, Medicaid, the list goes on and on and on. In addition I received notice in 2001 that Tim J. Hawbaker {I}, used my son’s name in connection with a dead man’s Social Security Number. Tim J. Hawbaker {I} was already well engage in identity theft in the 1980′s and 1990′s before it became the big crime of the country. Maybe, just maybe, had any one done anything at all to lock this sick S.O.B. up years ago my duaghter would be alive today. While he, Tim J. Hawbaker {I} was states away, when my daughter took her life, he might as well as had tied the neck tie around her neck himself. {He is good at choking people. I have first hand knowledge and experience with this.} He spent year and year brain washing the child to make her believe that nobody loved her, and made her feel as if she was alone in this world. Any one interested can look up Antisocial Personality Disorder, Severe Narcisstic Personality Disorder, Historonic Personality Disorder, Gambling Addiction, Drug Addiction, Control Freak, Wife Beater, and Child Abuser and get a clear picture of who Tim J. Hawbaker {I} is. To those who don’t know my daughter left a poem, her final words, which, have been shared with her family and those closest to her. In addition my daughter left the song “In My Life” by the Beatles, 1963 Rubber Soul album, as a message of love, to those BrandiRose cared about. You see, my daughter did love, he wasn’t able to choke that out of her, or kill that out of her. BrandiRose loved deeply. And will be deeply missed. For my daughter I give to her the song “And I love her” by the Beatles “Hard Days Night” album. If you really knew my daughter, truely knew her, you would love her too. My love for her, My beautiful daughter, my “Sug” will never die. This past week Thurday I was contacted by BrandiRose’s best friend, Poppy, who spoke to my daughter the morning she died. BrandiRose left her wishes that Poppy receive all her earthly belongings in her storage unit in Las Vegas, NV. Poppy has received nothing to date, because on 4/29/08 when I learned of BrandiRose’s death that evening Tim J. Hawbaker {I} was in Las Vegas, NV with Brandon cleaning out my daughter’s storage unit. Tim J. Hawbaker {I} had conned Brandon into cheating Poppy out of everything. On Monday evening Brandon found the courage in himself to call me after trashing me all over the internet without ever once speaking to me directly or knowing me. He obtained my number from BrandiRose’s neighbors whom I visited with while I was in LA, CA. He apoligized to me directly and for his part in what has transpired recently. He would like to help Poppy receive BrandiRose’s things. Poppy in addition has requested some of BrandiRose’s ashes. Poppy was the sister BrandiRose never got. Currently I have made no decision’s in this area to date. Poppy tells me that she is to be married in Jan. 2009 and that my daughter was to be her maid of honor. Poppy also tells me that BrandiRose took her life over an Email message/letter that Veronica Ford Hawbaker sent her the day before she died. Talk about “Evil Step-Mother”
I know Poppy and Brandi Hawbaker personally. The reason they are such good friends is that they both have severe mental problems. They both suffered from physical and sexual abuse (poppy being gang raped by a group of older boys in high school)and later on became angry unstable promiscuous women.
I know Poppy and Brandi personally as well. They are/were both wonderful, caring women who loved each other very much. Its such a shame that Brandi’s father cared so little about his daughter that he wouldn’t even grant her her final wishes and allow Poppy to have the personal items Brandi had expressly set aside for her.
Having abused his daughter in many ways himself, you would think the guilt of her death would have compelled him to carry out what little she had asked for, but he is far too busy not giving a shit.
Its so sad there are still people in this world who can trash the victims in all this. Brandi is dead at 25, and Poppy has lost her best friend in the world. Shame on you, Tim. Her blood is on your hands.
To PlayBoyBunnie,
Your name says it all as far as I am concerned. You don’t know either Brandi nor Poppy at all. I would suggest that possibly you are projecting your own issues “severe mental problems” and “angry unstable promiscuous women / woman” onto these two girls. Get some counseling and some self respect. Consider finding a new line of work and a new name for yourself as well.
To “Play Boy Bunnie”,
I can say this with certainty that the one “Play Boy Bunnie” wanna be that Brandi had some association with was so uncomfortable in her own skin and had such a distorted body image of herself that she went and had a boob job done, which didn’t much improve her over all. This “Play Boy Bunnie” got off on exposing herself and her new boobs to other women’s husbands and boyfriends, letting herself get felt up in the process because she was so attention hungry lacking any type of moral foundation it was not a problem for her to sleep around with other women’s husbands, boyfriends and partners and girlfriends. You see the “Play Boy Bunnie” wanna be which both Brandi and I know proved herself to be a severely jeolous, catty, manipulative, lying, 2 faced, know it all, self centered, severely narisstic, control freak, gossiping bitch {which her email message proves}, and snakey witch, whom you couldn’t trust more than you could pick her up and throw her. But then again this has already been told directly to her. So surprise it is nothing new that you didn’t already know and thats putting it lightly. Too bad “Play Boy Bunnie” didn’t think about getting some body work done on her core being and soul while she was getting her boob job done. Bet if the doctor’s looked they wouldn’t have seen a heart in her. The difference between “Play Boy Bunnie” and Brandi is that Brandi was a beautiful, kind, caring, and compassionate woman both on the inside of her inner being, as well as being a beautiful woman on the outside. Take a lesson here “Play Boy Bunnie” True Beauty comes from the inside and you are nothing ugly and always will be. Take a real good look in the mirror. {Oh I forgot you spend most of your time there feeding your ego.} Do you really like what you see. I doubt it. Does it give you some sick twisted pleasure to run down a dead girl?
To those interested. Check out E-Forms of Nashville and Tim J. Hawbaker {I} and ask yourself what kind of man leaves his child’s body rotting in the coroner’s office out in L.A., CA. Aparently Tim J. Hawbaker {I} is doing quite well for himself, yet too cheap to pay for his daughter’s cremation, too cheap to fly out to L.A., CA to i.d. her body, too cheap to give his own daughter any type of memorial and / or funeral service, yet greedy enough to rip off everything that his child had in this world which was to go to her best girl friend Poppy as her last wishes. Oh yeh, forgot he is just repeating his life time patterns of ripping people off. Forgot he ripped off everything from his ex-wife, Julie Hawbaker, to wine and dine Veronica Ford with. Wonder if Veronica Ford Hawbaker has any guilt at all about the email letter she sent to BrandiRose on 4/12/08, which sent BrandiRose over the edge. Most likely not, she spent years abusing the girl herself. Any responsibility in sending this girl to her death? Veronica Ford Hawbaker might just want to wise up and do some research on Tim J. Hawbaker {I}. He isn’t anything he presents himself to be. Great Con-Man, Great Crook. Check out cbs4denver.com/health/economic.domestic.violence.2.883712.html “A Domestic Violence Survivor’s Story-AOL Video” Julie Hawbaker If you really want any education about what BrandiRose and her little brother Timmy / T.J. had to live through. BrandiRose’s / Naami’s blood isn’t just on Tim’s Hands it is on Veronica’s as well. They both sent this child to her death. Greedy, Sick, Heartless Crooked ——-! Karma! What goes around comes around. Hope they both get exactly what they deserve.
Five of Diamonds: I dont even know if you are Brandi’s mother or not. However all the things you said to me describe Brandi to the core, not me.
“Play Boy Bunnie” got off on exposing herself and her new boobs to other women’s husbands and boyfriends, letting herself get felt up in the process because she was so attention hungry lacking any type of moral foundation it was not a problem for her to sleep around with other women’s husbands, boyfriends and partners and girlfriends”. Brandi stripped, had a history of prostitution (which she got arrested for 2x)and had slept with many married men that she bilked out of their life savings. So before you do some finger pointing at me, look at your own daughter. Brandi was 10x more attention hungry than I. The pictures prove it.
Brandi also had many negative things to say about you when I knew her. She said you were a psychopath, that you terrified her and she never wanted to see you again. Instead of defending your prostitute daughter why didnt you spend that time raising her better when she was younger.
Veronica Forehand Hawbaker of Vee Designs and Tim J. Hawbaker of E-Forms of Nashville at 6020 Woodland Hills Dr., Nashville, TN 37211 are both equally responsible for driving this child, Brandi Rose Hawbaker / Naami Dea to her death. Funny how both Veronica and Tim are CEO’s / Presidents of their respective companies but too cheap to fork over a dime to cremate this poor kid or to give her any type of memorial service after repeatedly abusing the girl. Ask yourself what kind of woman Veronica Forehand Hawbaker is to drive this kid to her death with her hurtful and cruel words that she sent Brandi Rose in her email letter to her on 4/12/08. Ask yourself what kind of man Tim J. Hawbaker is to leave his own kid to rot in the coroner’s office out in L.A., CA for weeks. What kind of father doesn’t even correctly remember his own child’s date of birth. Tim submitted a death certificate with an incorrect date of birth on it and most of the remaining information as “unknown”. He took a real interest in his kid’s life didn’t he. Takes one heartless sick individual to do that to his own kid. But worse yet takes one heartless cold sick woman to do the same. Doubt these two {Veronica and Tim} have even given a second thought at all to what they did. Veronica’s probably been too busy with herself trying on and wearing Brandi Rose’s dresses and shoes and other personal belongings, that Brandi Rose’s boyfriend Brandon bought for her, that Tim stole from Brandi Rose’s best girl friend Poppy to give it much thought. But then again the these two are so greedy and money hungry that they mostly likely sold Brandi Rose’s earthly possessions for a buck. Veronica’s probably pretty well satisfied with herself for driving this kid to her death and for finally having Brandi Rose out of the picture. Hope they both get exactly what they deserve. Either in this life or the next. Hope they both burn in hell for killing this kid. Brandi Rose’s big crime: Wanting to be love by two individuals totally incapable of understanding that basic concept. Veronica and Tim are both too self centered to begin to grasp the basic idea that kids have needs. They are too worried about their “public image” and egos to give a shit about this kid or any other kid for that matter. Sad to think these two have other children. Wonder how Brandi Rose’s little brother is handling all this and his sister’s suicide? Or is Veronica going to mother him and nuture him into an early death as well.
Tim Hawbaker killed his own kid through his years of abuse of her and through neglect. He was to provide and pay for court ordered psychiatric care
for her after her first suicide attempt, but he was too f—–g cheap, too self-centered, and too narcissistic to give a shit! Worried more about skipping out of the State of NE because people he defrauded there were after him. Worried more about lining his own pockets stealing as much as he could before he left. And worried more about getting laid by Marie and Veronica at the same time. Instead of making sure his own kid, his own flesh and blood was mentally stable. Worse yet he marries a woman {Veronica Forehand Hawbaker} whom he also lets repeatedly verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abuse his own daugther. Some “Father”, Some “Dad”, Some Protector, Some “HERO”. Is it any wonder the girl commit suicide with “parents” like those. He even went so far as to leave Brandi Rose rotting in the coroner’s office in L.A., CA for weeks. Does that sound like someone’s “HERO” as portrayed in Brandon and Jen’s Memorial Video for Brandi Rose. Does a “HERO” dishonor his child’s last wishes? Does a “HERO” steal from his own kid at her death? Well TIM HAWBAKER does. Does that sound like a “FATHER”, “DAD”, or “HERO” who gives a shit about his kid? NO! Brandon and Jen’s video about Tim being her “HERO” is such bullshit it makes me sick. If those two only knew the really story about Tim Hawbaker and the hell he put Brandi through, well they would change their tune fast. “HEROs” don’t do what Tim did to his daughter, and to his son, and to his whole family. To use the term “HERO” in association with Tim Hawbaker would make Brandi roll over in her grave. Wonder why Brandon and Jen state on their video that the family wants to remain “unknown”. Well it is because Tim and Veronica are more concerned about it possibly hurting their businesses {E-Forms of Nashville and Vee Designs} if it gets out that they are Brandi’s dad and step-mom. They are worried more about being found out for what they did to the girl then actually giving a shit about the girl. Yeh TIM HAWBAKER killed his own kid and he had VERONICA FOREHAND HAWBAKER help him. Tim probably drafted Veronica’s 4/12/08 email letter to Brandi Rose, which sent Brandi Rose over the edge, just to make sure she would get it right. Bet they took out a hefty insurance policy on Brandi Rose too before they did it. Pity though you don’t collect a dime of insurance money if someone commits suicide.
The Truth about Julie Partch Hawbaker Jury
(Brandi Rose Hawbaker’s biological mother)
The above comments are from Julie Partch Hawbaker Jury, Brandi’s biological mother. As seen in the writings she suffers from a mental illness. She was physically, verbally and emotionally abusive to Brandi when Brandi was a young girl in her teens. The divorce records from her 1st husband include two psychological evaluations on Julie which are quite long. The psychologists summarize their reports with the following assessments:
“Ms. Hawbaker appears to be an extremely angry and obsessive woman who appears paralyzed in a victim role. At times, some of her statements appeared hard to believe and suggest distortion and/or perhaps delusional thinking processes. It is strongly recommended that she seek a psychiatric consultation to see if psychotropic medications may be of benefit. In addition, in the opinion of the undersigned psychologist, Ms. Hawbaker needs ongoing psychological counseling from a skilled therapist……It is obvious that 16 year old Brandi can not possibly live with her mother at this time. Brandi expressed mixed emotions about having contact with her mother. Due to the verbal abuse witnessed by the undersigned psychologist of Brandi by her mother, I strongly recommend that, at least for the foreseeable future, Ms. Hawbaker and Brandi have visits only in either a therapeutic or supervised setting.” – September 19, 1997
“Ms. Hawbaker’s diagnosis appears to me to run more toward an Axis II diagnosis than an Axis I diagnosis. This client appears to have a personality disorder of a mixed type, with symptoms of obsessive/compulsive, narcissistic, histrionic, and borderline personality disorders. I do recommend both individual and family counseling with the children for this client. She needs to work on her own issues, how she affects others in relationships, and she needs to de-focus on her victim stance and her ex-husband in order to get on with her own life. This client needs a licensed and experienced therapist rather than just a lay counselor…..I have diagnosed her on Axis II as a personality disorder, not otherwise specified.” – June 8, 1998
Julie Partch Hawbaker Jury never knew Brandi from the age of 15 and only saw her once when Brandi was 21 years old. Here are excerpts out of Brandi’s diary:
June 11, 2003
I started calling Julie’s family looking for her. I want to talk to her. But I know that it’s probably going to cause me more pain that it will good.
June 19, 2003
Guess I will just make due with a short version. Found Mom. Been having long phone conversations with her. Not scared any more. …. Tried to commit suicide the other night. Dragged a butcher knife against my wrists until Brett took it away and then pinned himself on top of me
June 28, 2003
I hurt so much right now. I can’t stop crying. My psychological pain is transforming into physical pain and my stomach is in knots. Everything hurts right now. I just want to curl up and die. It seems like a better idea than to just curl up and cry. Which is what I’m already doing. I feel like smashing everything in sight, yet I can’t even move right now.
WHY?
WHY?
WHY?
God must really hate me. Life must really hate me. I feel as though I have a storm cloud hanging over me, following my every step. Nothing I do is right. You’re probably wondering what set me off on this path of self-pity? My mom left me a couple of messages today. She told me that she would not have contact with me again. I called her back and then she told me that she does not want to because I am dead to her. She said, “What do you want from me?” I told her that I want to be able to have a relationship with my mother. She started yelling at me on the phone and then hung up on me. I don’t understand any of this. We were doing so well. We were enjoying talking to each other. Now I just feel used and hurt. I started looking at things and it seems like nothing has changed. She is crazy. I remember that. I thought maybe I was just imagining things, but I wasn’t. I know what happened when I was a child. I remember everything she did to me and how she hurt me. I should have seen the signs. Every time we’ve talked, all she does is blame other people for things, especially my father. She takes no responsibility for her own actions. I thought she did because she apologized to me, but now I think it was just a lie. She’s not sorry. She’s still very much in denial and she plays the victim in every circumstance. Her perception of truth is fucked up really bad. Maybe it’s because of guilt. I also found out that she doesn’t have to go to therapy as part of her job. She told me that she doesn’t need it because she doesn’t have any problems. I should have seen right through her then, but I didn’t. I kept holding on to some illusion that perhaps I could have a mother. I really wanted that.
December 9, 2003
I’m emotionally drained. I don’t even know where to begin or if I can tonight because I’m so exhausted. I’m glad I came back to Omaha for my grandma’s funeral, but it’s been one of the hardest couple of days that I’ve had in a long time. Unfortunately, my mother is the same person that she has always been. Maybe I’ll talk more about it tomorrow, but I’m just tired tonight and a little sad. It was good to see my aunts and uncles though. They have always been good to me. And it was extremely good to see my grandfather. Who knows if I’ll have the chance to see him again.
These are the only excerpts that mention her biological mother, Julie Partch Hawbaker Jury. After Julie’s divorce from her 2nd husband, she misappropriately went back to using her first husband’s name. Brandi lived in fear of her biological mother and one time locked herself in her apartment in Las Vegas for two weeks thinking Julie Partch Hawbaker Jury was going to kill her.
May God Rest Brandi’s soul in peace and may her Biological Mother understand the part she played in this innocent girls life and obtain the help she so desperately needs!
In response to the above: Tim {Timothy} J. {James} Hawbaker {I} D.O.B. 5/1/61, has been attempting for years to destroy his ex-wife’s reputation so his and Veronica’s statements above are nothing new. Pity for him he wasn’t able to do that and that just gets under his sick twisted skin so bad. He never really has gotten over the plain fact that SHE LEFT HIM and initially filed divorce from him in 1995, for his domestic violence of her and both of their children, for his criminal activity, for his drug abuse problem, and for his gambling addiction. When she went to divorce him in 1995 {they married Oct. 24th 1981} he had been in and out of, and fired from 33 different jobs and many businesses that he ran into the ground per court records. The Judge in Washington County was so disgusted after the first four persons testified against him that the Judge immediately stopped the hearing and awarded custody of their minor son to his ex-wife. During this entire time he attempted to stalk and harass her throughout 3 different counties in Nebraska. He ran her over at their home in Blair, NE dragging her 4/10ths a mile with his Ford Explorer. There were 4 911 calls placed by their neighbors, including neighbors who attended the church his ex-wife took their children to. He conned a Washington County Sheriff Officer into giving him back shot guns and rifles in direct violation of protection orders filed against him. Those guns were picked up by Carlton M. Tarver Sr. of the Department of the Treasury, Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, and Firearms Division at his new apartment in Omaha, NE. He even went so far as to show up and violate a protection order against him at her college graduation and then also at her brother’s home in Sarpy County. Tim wasn’t able to destroy her nursing career then, and he won’t do it now. Gets under his sick twisted skin that his ex-Wife is successful. His ex-Wife is a Psychiatric Nurse, and a Trauma and Critical Care Nurse. And damn good at what she does. Her past year reviews are 85% Excellent in evaluation and 15% Good in evaluation. Can’t get much better than that. She’s never had any “mental illness or psychological problems”. In fact when she was in Nursing School she also nearly double majored in Psychology at the same time but completed an Honors Program Course Work, which was a first in her university’s history, for which she received special recognition at her college graduation. She works with the psychologically disturbed and the drug addicted. She had 15 years practice with Tim Hawbaker. He in fact made her an Expert in identifying a pathological liar. That’s why she has worked with Domestic Violence Victims for years. And also is a court watch adovocate in Domestic Violence Cases. That is also why she was asked to do a interview with CBS Channel 4 News in December 2008, about her case, and about her daughter’s suicide / death and what Tim and Veronica did to Brandi Rose. Just how many times did he make his family homeless over the years? Tim better ask himself if he really really wants pictures of the pit double wide mobile home exposed on the internet that he forced his family to live in without running water and heat in the dead of the Nebraska winters. Especially with the fact that he is now a “contractor”, which is such a joke in itself because of all the contractors he himself screwed over in Nebraska. If he continues to attempt to harass his ex-wife, she will have no problem in posting all the pictures in her possession of the hell he put her, Brandi Rose,and their son through. Including if need be the rotting face of HIS daughter, Brandi Rose Hawbaker / Naami Dea, which he and Veronica Forehand Hawbaker left rotting in the Coroner’s Office out in L.A., CA. People should see what this sick son of bitch and his child abusing wife did to this girl. Tim has no problems in posting what he claims are Brandi Rose’s diary entries on the world wide internet. Well maybe people really need to know the truth. Again his attempt to shift blame and responsibility in the fact that both he and Veronica drove Brandi Rose to her death. Just check out the L.A. County Coroner’s report. Tim even goes so far as to blame Veronica in it. One day Tim’s son will see Tim’s hand written note: “Do we get dirty?, Unfit Mother?, How do we remove XXXXX?” that he wrote to his attorney Nile K. Johnson, at their restaurant Petticoat Junction, in Fort Calhoun, NE. Then one day her son will fully understand just exactly what his father has done. One day he will know just exactly what he did to Brandi Rose as well. Their son is now of legal age and one day will be out of Tim’s control and brainwashing. One day he’ll know the truth about Tim J. Hawbaker {I} but until then in direct response of the above statements written by Tim J. Hawbaker {I} and Veronica Forehand Hawbaker. From the Final Divorce Decree 2/1998, WHICH IN FACT WAS NEVER AGREED TO AND SIGNED OFF BY HIS EX-WIFE’S ATTORNEY AS BEING APPROVED AS TO FORM AND CONTENT: that Tim J. Hawbaker “shall obtain a skilled psychological couselor for the children with continuing counceling SO LONG AS NEEDED.” He was to F—–G Cheap and self centered to take a dime out of his greedy pocket to see that either child received the proper mental health care that WAS COURT ORDERED. Brandi Rose’s suicide and death is a direct result of his neglect and Veronica’s email letter to Brandi Rose on 4/12/08. Item #9 “That the real estate of the parties located in Washing County, Nebraska, described as: Tax Lot Fifty-Three {53} in Section Twenty-Nine {29}, Township Eighteen {18} North, Range Twelve {12} East of the 6th P.M., Washington County, Nebraska together with a trailer house located on the premises shall be listed for sale with a real estate broker and sold as soon as possible and the net equity divided between the parties after paying all expenses of sale, existing liens on the properties and any back taxes due on said properties.” Instead what happens is that Tim J. Hawbaker gets a crooked realator to sell the property and trailer home and lets Tim J. Hawbaker rip off $60,000.00 in cash from his ex-wife which he uses to run from Nebraska with. What this decree also doesn’t say is that Tim J. Hawbaker defrauded the bank for this property using his wife’s and his son’s Social Security Numbers. Forget items #6 and #7 Tim J. Hawbaker again was too f—— cheap to pay his court order child support and to provide his kids with basic health and accident insurance. In fact when Brandi Rose totaled her mother’s car at her high school at the time while in Tim’s care, she is taken by ambulance to the hospital and Tim shows up at the E.R. pulls Brandi Rose out of the hospital with a severe head injury no less and multiple cuts because she was T-Boned by a elderly woman in a Cadillac, and provides them with no billing information. He skips the state of NE and the bills for both the hospital and the ambulance go on to collections. Even more so he defrauds Medicaid for Brandi Roses’s hospital bills at another hospital, and doesn’t even pay the doctor who delivered his son into this world either. Item #11 Division of Property. Tim rips of everything from the family home, businesses, and all bank accounts, including everything ever given to his ex-Wife throughout her life and prior to their marriage. Item #14 that Tim J. Hawbaker “shall pay to his ex-Wife alimony in the amount of $216.00 per month for a period of sixty months beginning January 1, 1998.” This “alimony” was for all the student loan money Tim J. Hawbaker stole from his ex-Wife. He didn’t pay a dime of it and in June 1999 skipped the State to leach off of Veronica Forehand Hawbaker using her residence, and address to hide for years. In relation to Tim J. Hawbaker’s psychological evaluation performed as part of the divorce action, what Tim J. Hawbaker doesn’t disclose is the fact that he paid off this particular “expert witness” on his behalf. And still yet she testified in the court hearing that Tim J. Hawbaker per the court record is “so severly narcissistic that it affects his ability to parent, because he doesn’t even recognize that his children have needs”. If Tim J. Hawbaker would like both “expert witnesses” testimonies scanned into the world wide internet that can be done to. Tim J. Hawbaker is “guilty of badmouthing the other parent in front of the children and attempting to alienate the children’s affection from the other parent.” Ms. Hawbaker reported that she has not been permitted to see Brandi since 11/16/96.” Basically the second time Ms. Hawbaker left / fled from Tim J. Hawbaker due to his continued abuse of everyone in the household. He utilize Brandi Rose as a pond in his sick twisted game. RE: the Assessment of Tim Hawbaker “the angriest time…when I served time in jail”.
“Regarding his work history, Mr. Hawbaker reported that he held several part time jobs when he was a child and as a teenager. His first full time salaried position occurred when he was about 18 years old and worked at a pizza shop. He then worked at another pizza shop for about two years. He reported he help organize 18 such restaurants but was “LAID OFF”: At a late date Mr. Hawbaker opened his own restaurant but had to file bankruptcy abouth eight months later. ….He apparently owned a restaurant at Crossroads Mall in 1992 for about 2 years. In 1993, he opened another restaurant but apparently during the Summer of 1997, Mr. Hawbaker notified this office that he had started a new job”. What he does not say is that he gambled away 2 homes in South Carolina, one home in Broken Arrow, OK, and a fourth home in Omaha, NE in 1993 during this time as well. Repeatedly making his family homeless because gambling on football and basketball games,and gambling in Las Vegas, were more important to him and a higher priority instead of his children having a roof over their heads and food on the table. “Regarding illegal drugs, he reported that he experimented with marijuana…” Again what he doesn’t say is that he had a bad trip on PCP. “When asked about any difficulties with the legal authorities, Mr. Hawbaker reported that he has twice been ..jailed…related to harassing my wife..” “He reported that financial issues have been a problem.” Gee, guess why, a gambling addiction creates problems. “His score on the Spouse subscale {85th percentile} suggests that his relationship with the mother of his children is extremely negative.” In relation to the Demographic Questionanaire for Brandi, he did indicate that she has been “tardy” on occasion. What he doesn’t tell the woman is that he was pulling her out of school and forcing Brandi Rose to work at his restaurants and at food shows starting when the child was just 8 years old, violating Child Labor Laws, because he was too cheap to hire and pay staff. “According to the MMPI-2 Manual”…”Individuals {Tim J. Hawbaker} with similar scores may be described as: A LACK OF INSIGHT, A TENDENCY TO DENY OWN FAULTS, AND / OR SIGNIFICANT DEFENSIVENESS. In the alternative, individuals with similar scores may view themselves as self-righteous.” “On the MCMI-3, the validity scores reveal an elevated social desirability scale…Individual with similar scores are often described as either intentionally or subconsciously attempting to make a favorable impression….THE CLINICAL PERSONALITY SCORES SUGGEST POSSIBLE HISTRIONIC, AND NACISSISTIC PERSONALITY FEATURES. Individuals with similar scores may be described as emotional, dramatic, MANIPULATIVE, AND SELF-ABSORDED.” That is a dramatic understatement of Tim J. Hawbaker’s psycological problems. “What annoys me is being arrested.” “I failed as a husband.” Tim J. Hawbaker not only FAILED as a husband, he FAILED as a father, he FAILED TO BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING in leaving his daughter to rot in the coroner’s office. In the end Tim J. Hawbaker’s “expert witness” wrote “The family presents with a high risk of being harmed by Parental Alienation Syndrome.” Spend years telling a child like Brandi Rose that her mother doesn’t love her because your such a sick self centered son of bitch, and you end up with a child who kills herself because you successfully alienated the girl from the only individual in this world that truely loved the child. IT WAS AND HAS BEEN THE ONLY THING TIM J. HAWBAKER EVER HAS DONE SUCCESSFULLY IN HIS LIFE. TO DESTROY HIS CHILDREN’S LIVES. AND HE WAS AT IT BEFORE HIS SON EVEN REACHED THE AGE OF 4. Per Memorandum of Investigation, Office of the Inspector General, Social Security Administration Case #X-XX-XXXXX per Special Agent R. E. Holtz “OIG’s case agent conducted a preliminary investigation concerning the misuse of Social Security Numbers {SSN} assigned to Ms. Hawbaker {XXX-XX-XXXX} and Timothy J. Hawbaker II {XXX-XX-XXXX} {here in after The Hawbakers}. The case agent’s findings revealed that the Hawbakers SSNs were misused by their husband and father {here in after THE VIOLATOR}, respectively.
OIG’s case agent revealed that THE VIOLATOR has used the Hawbakers’ SSNs for various reasons, which included defrauding financial institutions and several government programs. THE VIOLATOR has used the Hawbakers’ SSN to illegally obtain tax credit payments, when in fact, he was not entitled to the payments. Also, THE VIOLATOR has defrauded the Internal Revenue Service on numerous occasions by failing to report cash earnings from his buinesses. In addition, this case agent discovered that false statement were made to the bankruptcy court by THE VIOLATOR.
It is evident that the Hawbakers’ SSNs have been misused by THE VIOLATOR on numerous occasions, so that he may finacially gain. As the result of this investigation, it is evident that THE VIOLATOR has been misusing SSNs not assigned to him, so all three {3} credit bureaus have been notified that THE VIOLATOR is misusing SSNs to gain financially. The IRS has been notified of violations being committed by the VIOLATOR, and there may be a joint OIG/IRS case developed……In summary, THE VIOLATOR has violated Title 42, United States Code, Section {408{a}{7} and Title 18, U.S.C. Section 1001 on numerous occasions. Due to the fact that THE VIOLATOR has ruinied the Hawbakers credit and Reputation, it is strongly urged that the Social Security Administration take the appropriate action to assign a new SSN to both Ms. Hawbaker and Timothy {II} Hawbaker. Signed and dated 5/18/97. Nice legacy to leave your child. A history of destoryed credit because of your own sick GREED. Timothy James Hawbaker II would be wise to tract down this federal agent now that he is of legal age to protect his financial future from his father’s sickness. The crimes Tim J. Hawbaker committed against his wife and his son are classified as a FELONY with “a maximum penalty of 15 years imprisonment, a fine, and forfeiture of any personal property used or intended to be used to commit the crime per the Identity Theft and Assumption Deterrence Act. Gee had anyone locked this sick son of bitch up years ago Brandi Rose would be alive today. In addition Tim J. Hawbaker is guilty of the “dual crimes” of Credit Fraud, Mail Fraud, Financial Institution Fraud, and Social Security Fraud. Per Micheal D. Wellman, First Assistant U. S. Attorney U.S. Department of Justice letter dated 12/21/1998 “I have now been in contact with both the FBI and the Health and Human Service {HHS} investigator about matters concerning Tim J. Hawbaker. The FBI and this office agree that THERE MAY WELL HAVE BEEN VIOLATIONS OF FEDERAL BANKKING LAW COMMITTED BY TIMOTHY HAWBAKER. Again had anyone done anything at all to lock this sick son of bitch up Brandi Rose would be alive today. Per the Omaha World Herald Saturday , September 4, 1999 newspaper listing of Subcontractors defrauded by Tim J. Hawbaker include the following: “The Subcontractors included project designer and construction manager James B. Franksen, as well as Formcraft Corp., Blair Glass Co., Controlled Comfort Engineering, Ancona Brothers Co., Kehm Contractors, Kennedy Studios, Meehan-Radachi, Taylor Plumbing and Wiedeman Electrical Services….Franksen died two months before the case went to trial..in August 1997.” In fact James B. Franksen commit suicide over the screwing he took from Tim J. Hawbaker. Per Washington County Sheriff’s Office letter dated 9/30, 1997 RE: Timothy Hawbaker
Dear Sir: On the above date, Ms. Hawbaker came to our office and was upset at the fact that we had released weapons to her husband, back in January of 1997. She has, what appears to be a valid protectiion order, which was issued in December of 1996. Our concern is that on the bottom on the Order is a paragraph pertaining to the possession of weapons by the Respondent…..” This document was in fact signed by Sgt. Fred J. Carritt, whom was the individual who also gave Tim back his weapons. A citizen’s complaint was filed against Fred J. Carritt, on this date as he had also lied about the guns still being held in evidence on May 27, 1997. A citizen’s complaint was filed against Sgt. Fred J. Carritt for endangering the lives of Ms. Hawbaker and Timothy James Hawbaker II. These citizen’s complaints were turned into Sheriff Terry W. Horner by a third party who had accompanied Ms. Hawbaker to the Sheriff’s Department. In addition the above documents have been distributed about Tim J. Hawbaker throughout the United States as teaching tools in Domestic Violence Cases on how to put women and children at risk and about how corrupt our current legal and justice system is.
April 13th, 2009 marks the 1st Year Anniversary of Brandi Rose Hawbaker’s suicide and death. Read the above and then consider who is responsible for this child taking her life. Were there other factors involved? You Bet! Was the internet harassment she was receiving in part responsiblie? You bet! But again, who was primarily responsible for her taking her life – Tim J. Hawbaker and Veronica Forehand Hawbaker, who kicked this kid out of Veronica’s home after forcing the girl just to pay her rent money to live there putting the kid out on the street when she was just 17 and still in high school. Anyone of you ask yourselves could you make it in this world alone? That’s where Brandi Rose was most of her teen years and throughout her young adult life. She looked for some sense of belonging in the Poker World. And you all just continued the abuse where Tim and Veronica left off. It is any wonder she took her life when she felt and believed she had no one to turn to. Alienate a child to the point she herself doesn’t believe that her own mother could love her and you are guilty of committing murder. Brandi Rose’s blood in on both your hands Tim J. Hawbaker and Veronica Forehand Hawbaker. Brandi Rose’s blood is on everyone of your hands in the Poker World who used, exploited, and abused this girl. Her story will be told.
To Abusers like Tim J. Hawbaker, get yourself some help before you destory innocent lives like Brandi Rose’s.
To Abusers like Veronica Forehand Hawbaker, get yourself some help to figure out why you are so threatened by a troubled girl that you can’t see past your own self-centeredness to help a child in trouble. Ask yourself why you too became an abuser?
To both of the above type Abusers ask yourself if you one day you want to be sitting in Tim J. Hawbaker’s and Veronica Forehand Hawbaker’s shoes. Guilty of driving a child to his or her death. A legacy of suicide is a very sad thing to leave to the living that did in fact love the individual. It is a very sad legacy to leave to the individual’s entire family and siblings.
To those being abused, women, and children, and teens Check out http://WWW.EndDomesticAbuse.org for a good assessment tool to determine if you are in deed in an abusive and controlling situation. You don’t have to live life that way. There is help out there. Freedom is sweet!
To those who make the poor choice to gamble their and their families lives way seek help. You don’t need to live life as a FOOL any longer.
To those addicted to drugs and alcohol, you to are just committing a slow suicide. Save everybody the time, or get yourself some help. There are those who do care about you in the world. Even those that you may think you have burned your bridges with. Everyone deserves a second chance at life. Choose for yourself to be drug and alcohol free.
Pity Brandi Rose Hawbaker aka Naami Dea didn’t a second chance.
In her memory.
WE MISS YOU IN THAT GREAT BIG SOMEWHERE OUT THERE.
Dear “BrandiesMom”, or any of the other names you’ve posted under here. If you haven’t noticed you’re talking to yourself. You keep posting and no one is responding. You continue on, with different names, and carry on, as if you are in fact, insane. You are doing your daughter a disservice, here. It would be better for Brandi if you just said “She had unfit parents, we messed up, but knew no better”. I mean you are by every definition mentally disturbed. Both you and Brandi’s father are equally responsible. How narcissistic is it to constantly post your ex-husbands short comings, most of which are flimsy and transparent. If he was able to buy so many houses surely he was doing something right. You need psychiatric help, and fast. Regardless of what Tim did, or didn’t do, Brandi is gone. You married him, you had a kid with him, and you have an equal part in this. I wonder how you could care so much, but not see your adult daughter? When she was 18 at the latest you could have reconciled any ill feelings. Brandi was disturbed, and now it is plain as day why. She inherited it from you. Please get help, and let your daughter rest in peace.